"Suffering is not holding you. You are holding suffering.
When you become good at the art of letting sufferings go, then you'll come to realize how unnecessary it was for you to drag those burdens around with you.
You'll see that no one else other than you was responsible. The truth is that existence wants your life to become a festival."
- Osho, was an Indian mystic and teacher
"All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another ...feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy."
- Dr. Wayne W. Dyer